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Wednesday, March 2nd, 2005
12:38 am - help!!!!

err..i'm so confused and need help...the whole story at this entry:

my story

x-posted. i'm really confused and just need the advice...*sigh* =(

current mood: confused

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Friday, December 24th, 2004
9:17 pm


Ho Ho Ho...Merry Christmas!  Get good presents!

Loves, Angel

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Thursday, September 23rd, 2004
8:02 pm

Just wanted to say hi. I am new here, Obviously.
My boyfriend is in Iraq right now in the Marines!!
He won't be back until March (hopefully if they don't extend it)...
I miss him.
If you want to read his livejournal it's hootiehoo2106.


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Friday, September 3rd, 2004
8:19 pm


Sorry if this is not allowed...I haven't updated in forever, but I -promise- to do so way soon.

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Friday, August 27th, 2004
2:39 pm
herfragility Hey, I was bored last night so I was playing around with my photo editing program and I made a couple of edited couple pictures, and I think some came out pretty cool. What do you think?

I love him so much...Collapse )

Oh I miss him so much. :-/ Why does he have to be 10 hrs away?


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Monday, August 23rd, 2004
9:17 pm - pics
herfragility My boy just visited me for 12 whole days and we took a bunch of couple pics as well. Now he's gone again and I can't wait to see him again. [He lives in Las Cruces, NM, and I'm in Austin, TX]

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Friday, August 6th, 2004
2:04 pm
herfragility ( my long distance love survey )

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Thursday, July 29th, 2004
10:43 pm - curious
herfragility When you're in a LDR with someone, which one of these visitation ideas would appeal to you the most?
A) You get to see him/her every few weeks to once a month, but you can only see him/her for a weekend.
B) You get to see him/her every few months, but you get to see him/her for a week
C) You get to see him/her from a year to a few years, but you get to see him/her for a whole month

my choice:
I think that I would most likely choose B. That is sorta how we're in right now. Although it would be awesome every few weeks, but a weekend is just so short, and it'll be over really quick. And if you have to spend money on plane tickets or driving anyway, you should make it worth it, right, and not just like two days, which would seem so short. And I didn't pick C because I don't think I'd want to wait for a few years, even if I do see him for a whole month. I guess I'm just not patient enough.

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Sunday, July 18th, 2004
9:46 am

me&Josh <3

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Tuesday, July 13th, 2004
11:03 am - rant
herfragility Just a little rant.

It really annoys me when people think that because you're in a LDR, it's "pathetic" bc they think you can't find someone local, and just clinging to someone far away like a fantasy. Like they think you just don't know how to date or meet people locally, and that you are afraid of breaking up with your ldr so because you dont think you'd know how to find anyone else or date.

It's annoying that a lot of people don't believe that LDRs could work out, and that we're just wasting our times with it, when we could have having fun hooking up with other people or whatever.

It's also annoying that they think LDRs don't work out because everyone needs the physical aspects of it, and "oh you're gf/bf is probably cheating on you over there anyway." True, I like physical aspects of it, but I love him, and if it's meant to be, it'll work out, and all the loneliness/hardships of the LDR.... he's completely worth it.

Just a rant.

current mood: annoyed

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Friday, July 9th, 2004
10:28 pm - dorky couple pics!!!
herfragility Hehehe, last time when my guy visited me, we went webcam crazy so we took a shitload of silly, dorky pics. That's pretty much how we always act around each other, lol, joking around and laughing and being dorks. Yep.

Batch I Dorky pics"
Batch II Dorky pics

:) I love him so much... sigh....


current mood: in love

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Wednesday, July 7th, 2004
3:28 am - me and my boy
herfragility As you know, my boy just left after 12 days of bliss here with me...

But here's some pics we took while he was here. Enjoy.

more picsCollapse )

If the pics didn't work, go to this link</a

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Thursday, July 1st, 2004
8:16 pm

Normally, my icons are flashy, glittery, with tiny words with pictures on them. I decided to try something a little different this time. This time, I made them simple, consice, and gritty. I think they make more of a statement this way. Anyway, here goes:

Icons with lyrics on them. The lyrics are from love songs that can be interperted as being about long

distance relationships, or sound like they can be about them. If the song has nothing to do with LDRS

and you know the "true meaning" of the song or something, don't rush to tell me because frankly, I don't

really care :-/

+No credit needed or even wanted.
+Here are the icons that I will not costumize.
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+Here are the icons that I will costumize. If you want it cosumized, post the number of the icon

and exactly what you want it to say, then post your email address. No animations please. If you don't

post exactly what you want me to say or give me your email, I wont costumize them for you.
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current mood: bitchy

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Tuesday, June 22nd, 2004
6:39 pm

Hi, I'm Alissa.

I met my boyfriend in a psychiatric hospital. He was there for substance abuse and I was there for depression and other things. I was at a temporary placement called Bournewood and he came in. He was only there for a day until he was transferred to a different place called McLean's. You may be familiar with it, it was the place that was in the book Girl, Interrupted and a lot of famous artists have gone there. About a week after he left I was transferred to the same place. It was serendipity.

However, he learned he was moving in with his grandparents in NH, which is two hours away from me. This wouldn't be that tough only I have no licence, let alone a car. We have to rely on our guardian's to get us to eachother, which is not very often.

I'm still pretty fragile, though. I need some extra support for the times he can't be with me.

so I joined a bunch of communities, and I made one. please take a look at me__you. everyone is welcome to join.


current mood: contemplative

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Wednesday, May 19th, 2004
12:25 am - new member...anyone need awesome layouts?
xlightamatchx Im new to this community because i just found out about it. I met my girlfriend on livejournal and we havent met yet...i know i know that sounds bad but im sure many of you out there understand. We both cant afford plane tickets to come see each other so we have been trying to save up but with bills and everyday life its really hard. So i was going to offer anyone that i would make them a full complete layout for a small price so i can earn money to get on a plane to see her. I do make very good layouts, i wish i had an example but the one in my journal right now isnt fully finished so its looking kind of rough but you can still check it out. This one is pretty basic but thats what i was going for so, if anyone is interested please contact me either by leaving a comment, email, or you can try aim but sometimes i dont get messages so if i dont respond please email me. I appreciate anyone who will help me out, i just cant wait a second longer to hold her in my arms.

current mood: hopeful

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Sunday, May 16th, 2004
11:26 pm - advice please
herfragility Well, I just need some advice on my situation, so if anyone have any advice or tips or anything, it would be greatly appreciated.

Note: I put it in a linked txt file because LJ is being a bitch to me and not let me post the whole thing on here. I dunno, maybe it's my computer.

My situation


current mood: lonely

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Tuesday, March 16th, 2004
5:09 pm - please help..

i'm having major problems with my long distance relationship, and there's no one i can really talk to, because it's sort of a hidden relationship. it's wearing me down so badly. - if you can help, please comment - my Im's are blocked to people who aren't on my buddy list, so just email me telling me you can help, with your screen name for aol/aim or yahoo. anyone please. i'll forever thank you..<3

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Wednesday, January 21st, 2004
4:14 pm

Hey, I'm Angel, I'm a newbie...I massively miss my boyfriend, I'm in Alabama, and he's in Florida...It's not fair. I love him so much, and I want to make it work between us, how do I do that?

current mood: blank

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Wednesday, November 19th, 2003
6:47 pm

Hello, My name is Lyndsay and I just joined this community...just lookin for someone to lend an ear =/

I met my boyfriend last October (2002) through a mutual friend. Of course we talked everyday and became best friends, then after two months in December we both admitted that we really liked each other. Keep in mind that he lives in Denver and I love in Atlanta.

Fast forward through the longest 8 months of my life to August 2003. We're still together and it just so happens that my boyfriend, Brian, is going to Jekyll Island (GA coast). Im 16 so I cant just go with him. So hes about 600 miles away in the same state but i still cant see him! To my luck my parents asked me if I wanted to go to Hilton Head Island in South Carolina and of courseeee I said yes and my family and I went there while Brian was about 150 miles south of me.
Just to sum it up, i wrote the story a few days after it happened and saved it as a memory in my journal:

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So now its the middle of November and its been really hard not seeing him since August. He has the money for a plane ticket but the only problem is, is that his parents wont let him come here, Im MORE than welcome to stay with him and his family in Denver but my parents wont let me go off to stay with some boy (as they put it)whom they've never met themselves. My dad gave me this whole speech on how long distance relationships "never work" and blah blah blah blah. But seriously I know we can make it through this, i just really really want to see him asap because i know it will make things a million times easier.
My parents even sent me to a therapist because I cried one day in front of them and now they think im depressed and some stupid crap like that.

I would be so grateful if someone helped me. I just really dont know how to tell my parents that we're falling in love with each other more and more every day, I guess im just afraid they'll think im stupid and quite frankly im embarassed to tell them. They want me to move on and find someone around here (not gonna happen, believe me). Ive already found someone so why cant they let me see him?
Some for all the rambling. I hope someone here was crazy enough to read this.


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Wednesday, October 29th, 2003
5:47 am - ::ring:: Hello?

x-post from longdistanceluv

Hi, I'm Brittney, 19, Louisiana ,i been in a long distance relationship a total of 2 mos. with Josh,18, Colorado i. just join the community and i thought i would share my story and things that are right now and maybe you can tell me what you think..

I met Josh about 5 years ago in a chat and we started talking maybe like once a week well that turn into twice a week to everyday. it was weird i had to have a Josh fix once he day. He said he need a Britt fix the same way. So we are just friends that tend to like each other right?...Wrong. well he has been on and off with his girlfriends. I have heard his trials and tribulations on each girlfriend. i knew he had a girlfriend and it was harmless flirting but whatever. i didn't do anything to jeopardise the realtionship..honestly what can i do he's in colorado and only met me on the internet..i mean come on. his gf who is also his first love broke up with him and he was not to good soo i try the best i can via the internet to help him but anywho he says he wants to come to New Orleans for a week on vacation cause he wants to spend his birthday with me. I should meantion Josh is from Colorado. Well the 1st day he is here we kiss unexpected but it just fell right(weird besides the fact he was my first kiss)..ya know..anyway well we plann on doing the long distance relationship..well its October and this is all in August. Oi

Well now we have been talking on the phone and he says it isn't the same i am different on the phone than i am on the internet or in person..he says i am more immature and like a child....yet i can see where he sees this i don't feel i purposely act this way with him and honestly i think i was like this before. ::sighs:: i mean i love him to death and i am going to see him in January a whole 6 mos pass since we have seen each other. but still i have gotten in more arguements over the phone than b4 on the internet when we never fought..

current mood: melancholy

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